Calm assertive.


So I've almost finished reading Cesar Millan's first book, Cesar's Way. It's not about training a dog to do things as much as it's about a whole mindset and philosophy for raising a happy, balanced dog. Cesar believes that we mess up dogs by making them fulfill our needs - for love, affection, cuddling, etc. His mantra is "Exercise, Discipline, Affection" - the attention you give dogs should take the form of exercise 50% of the time, followed by discipline 25% of the time, and affection 25% of the time, in that order.

That's really, really difficult to do when you have an adorable puppy in front of you and all you want to do is give affection, affection, affection.

I'll let you know how it goes. Olive is spending her first night alone in her crate this evening. I gave her a warm rice/flax pillow with a timer under it to simulate her mom's heartbeat. She cried and cried for what seemed like about an hour and a half, but it turned out to be five minutes.

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katiehinsey said…
Actually, after working with kids so long, exercise and discipline can really be seen as 'love in action'...you know, the whole 'give them boundaries' thing. You can combine them all by teaching the dog tricks for your own amusement--the last dog I helped raise was taught how to shut the bedroom door by putting pieces of american cheese just high enough for him to stand on his feet, push with his paw and eat. Tehe!! Behavioral psych at it's best! I'm happy for you! Warm cuddly puppies definitely make for a good holiday season.
@sweetbabboo said…
I don't think I could listen to her cry. What you have to do is remind yourself that what you are doing is best for them. Limits are a good thing for dogs and humans alike. I'm sure she'll get the hang of things soon and will be a better dog for it.